I Have Codependency…have U heard of this word?

My name is Tawna and I am codependent…big time! There I said it!

Codependency is NOT healthy at all. Before I go in  more depth I thought I would define it for you. I went to Wikipedia and it defined it as

“an unhealthy love and a tendency to behave in overly passive or excessively care taking ways that negatively impact one’s relationships and quality of life. It also often involves placing a lower priority on one’s own needs, while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others.[1] Codependency can occur in any type of relationship, including family, work, friendship, and also romantic, peer or community relationships.[1] Codependency may also be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, excessive compliance, or control patterns.[1] Narcissists are considered to be natural magnets for the codependent.”My Aunt gave me a book over 15 years ago called Continue reading

The woman always knows…so why don’t men listen?

We were in WV for the Thanksgiving weekend and we were having a nice family day site seeing wonderful places.

We were driving on lot’s of windy back roads, as the Midwest is full of them. There was one problem though…I kept having to tell my hubby to watch the d@%n road!

Like most men I have driven with, he likes to look out the darn window instead of looking forward. This is even a bigger problem as my daughter and I are car sick 90% of the time we are in the car, and his looking everywhere but the front road, makes it worse. Continue reading

She is only 5 with a mouth of a 15-year-old!

There is the 5-year-old little princess showing off her first missing tooth. So exciting and she is so happy!

Well little miss princess of 5 is not always the nice little princess you see in the Disney movies. She is more like Little Miss Attitude princess!

Why is it when they get to where they can talk, the attitude comes along with it?

She already knows everything, just ask her. Continue reading

Help from fellow Word Press bloggers…which captcha do u use?

Captcha’s argh!!! Which one to use.

I have tried the regular captcha plug-in and I still get over 100 spam messages a day! I don’t allow just anyone to register on my blog, which is frustrating because I want people to be able to register.

I then tried enmask captcha and people quit leaving comments because it was hard to read for one, and it would say “wrong code” tons of times and it would be right, for two!

So tell me fellow WP bloggers, what plugin works best for you to cut down on spam but not frustrate your readers to make comments. Any and all advice is much appreciated!