Do they know?

Did you go to bed mad last night? I did, in fact the last 2 nights I have gone to bed pissed off at my hubs.

Did you mean to call someone, you haven’t it a while, and then say to yourself “nah tomorrow?”

Do you tell those loved ones, every day, how much they mean to you?

When you argue or fight with someone do you walk away and wait for them to come to you, even if it takes days, months, or years? Then do you let yourself stew about it every day and keep those negative vibes so fresh around you that it taints all your other relationships and well-being?

Are you so proud that you are not able to say “I am sorry,” or “let’s talk about this and work it out?”

This post is not just something I thought about randomly, it is something that is hitting me very hard today. Twice in the last 7 days there has been loss around us. Both these people in their 40’s, way to young to pass on to the after life.

I was so mad at my hubby the last 2-days, and after hearing the second round of death news this morning, I was so glad that he was still here. How babyish I have been and how dare I make things more then what they are. Those people that lost their loved ones, over the last 7-days, or anyone with a loss, would give anything to sleep in the same bed with their loved one again, talk to them again, kiss goodbye, and even have an argument with them again.

How selfish have I been? Very…

Just take time and breath today and think about all those situations and people you have been avoiding simply because you are holding a grudge, too tired to pick up the phone, or waiting for them to come to you.

Don’t be the selfish one, be the bigger person and take care of you and your own. No one wants to leave unfinished business when the die…no one. So why leave it unfinished when we are alive? Why do humans do that? If you got something to say, say it, no one else is going to do it for you. No one else should do it for you.

This morning I had a rude awaking as my hubby and I hugged and cried. Why did it have to come to that…a death…for us to reconcile and hold each other, and say I love you and I AM SORRY.

RIP Friends. You are and will be very missed!